DAILY SNACK
Hey, get back here young lady!
Just where do you think you’re going with my wallet and car key?
Rebecca Cuneo Keenan is a writer who lives in Toronto with her husband and three children.
DAILY SNACK
Hey, get back here young lady!
Just where do you think you’re going with my wallet and car key?
DAILY SNACK
We had the park to ourselves yesterday.
Must be flu season.
But the lush canopy that offers cool shade in the summer
Was all shades of orange and yellow, red and brown
And the ground was a soft, sweet-smelling blanket of fallen leaves.
We jumped and ran and rolled around.
We frolicked.
And it was amazing.
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So last Friday night I started to feel achy,
And tired and dizzy.
My throat was sore
And by the next morning I had a bit of a cough.
Swine flu!
Maybe.
My symptoms were very mild and most definitely
Not worth crowded, germ-ridden clinics.
Today I feel almost 100%.
By tomorrow I should be able to leap tall buildings in a single bound
And maybe even catch up the laundry.
(Because I know you’re wondering: The kids seemed to have low-grade fevers a couple days earlier, but have been in normal spirits with a tiny cough since. Ed has been fighting something off forever and could be either the first or the last to get this bug.)
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Colum was going to be a ninja turtle for Halloween
And Irene was to be a Lady Bug.
Until, at the last minute, Colum decided to be a ninja wolf.
Hmm. How about a lion? ROAR.
We have a lion costume already.
And so it was.
The trick or treating was good,
But not as magical as it was two years ago.
(Or last year so I hear but I wouldn’t know because I wasn’t allowed to go because I just birthed a baby and no I’m not still moping.)
I blame the swine flu.
But there was the nice, sad old drunk guy who was giving out these:
Candies for the kids
And cookware for the parents who work so hard, he said.
Also for the teenaged girls, apparently.
You should have seen their faces.
And then, of course, there’s the house on High Park that always goes all out:
They also had a guillotine and electric chair
And dry ice smoke effects
And flashing lights
And a cemetary
And more.
And she had the nerve to give Ed a hard time for having a baby out so late.
Really? Really?!
Lady, where I come from Halloween is for the kids.
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On this day one year ago,
I woke up feeling funny.
39 weeks and 3 days funny.
Colum and I took the bus to my midwife appointment where they confirmed
That, yup, you’re about to have a baby.
Any day now.
We then suffered through bus detours
And picked up several bags of organic produce.
I draped them on the stroller and slowly started for home.
I took a pit stop at my parents’ house where the first little stabbing contractions happened.
Uh oh, I thought, labour might happen later tonight.
Ed met me there and we walked home,
Stopping only to pick up dinner at Vesuvios.
At 8pm I ate a bowl of gnocchi.
(It was good.)
At 12:30 am on Halloween Irene came shooting into the world,
A mere one hour after we arrived at Mount Sinai hospital.
We were home by 3am and have not been back since.
Also on this day a year ago,
Jayla Desouza was born at Mount Sinai hospital.
She underwent two open heart surgeries,
And spent more time in hospital than at home.
She fought hard for ten months before passing away at home.
Happy Birthday precious girls.
Read more about Jayla’s story here, and donate in her name to support research for congenital heart defects and hearing loss here.
The H1N1 flu vaccine became available in Canada as of this Monday and health workers across the country are scrambling to administer the shots as widely and efficiently as possible. So far, there have been nearly 5000 deaths worldwide due to swine flu (H1N1) and overflowing clinics and long waits are a reality for the time being.
What I have been hearing, however, is a far cry from eager anticipation of a life-saving medicine. I have been hearing cynical, suspicious critiques of the very governmental agencies and people who have been working around the clock to get the vaccine out in time for this year’s flu season. I have been hearing worry and concern about the safety of the vaccine. People are confused and don’t know what to believe.
There is a general climate of distrust when it comes to vaccines, I think, due to the highly publicized (and bogus) theory that childhood vaccinations are linked to rising autism rates. (See here how it impacts parents’ decisions regarding H1N1.) Much has been made of the rush to get these vaccines out and of the presence of thimerosal and an adjuvant in the vaccine. I have argued before that standard vaccines are safe and necessary and will now argue in favour of the H1N1 flu vaccine. You should absolutely get vaccinated and I’ll tell you why.
“But the vaccines contain mercury which is a known toxin.”
“Then why did the US stop using thimerosal in childhood vaccines in 2006?”
“I hear that the government and the media are in bed with Big Pharma and have created all this hype in order to make money off our fears.”
Evan Frustaglio was a 13 year old hockey player from Toronto with no health problems at all. While at a hockey tournament in London he began to feel slightly ill. By Saturday his fever wasn’t being helped by over-the-counter medication and his parents brought him to a clinic on Sunday. He was sent home with nothing to worry about as his breathing was regular and the fever was being controlled. He got out of the bath on Monday and collapsed. He was pronounced dead at the hospital. [Update: From the Toronto Star: “Dr. David McKeown, Toronto’s medical officer of health, said Evan had “mild asthma,” something his father disputed.”Evan didn’t have asthma; he had been prescribed puffers a few years ago when he had a cold,” Frustaglio said.]
The truth is that we don’t know who the victims are going to be with this flu. This is a brand new strain that nobody has any natural immunity against. It isn’t just the flu.
Further reading:
Health Canada’s Vaccine Myths
World Health Organization’s Influenza A(H1N1) Frequently Asked Questions
Wired, “An Epidemic of Fear,” and the follow up, “H1N1 Flu Shot: 3 Major Fears Debunked” (highly recommended)
The Atlantic Monthly, “Does the Vaccine Matter?”
(Image courtesy of Zaldylmg on Flickr.)
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My in-laws were over the other day.
While I was in the kitchen getting supper ready,
Colum was busy clearing off the living room rug
So I could vacuum.
Oh sweetie,
Thank you for making it look like I vacuum on a regular basis.
That was nice.
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Even good days start out from behind.
Somebody crying out from their bedroom,
Needing something, needing you.
You struggle up and out of sleep,
And it always feels like you have just fallen into the first deep sleep of the night.
If you have a baby,
That’s probably true.
The bad days then,
Are just escalated variations of that theme.
You never do catch up,
You never can get everyone what they need.
The day ends and you are still hopelessly behind on everything.
So you work through the night,
Hoping for a easier tomorrow.
And thanks be to coffee.
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Irene loves to puruse the book shelves.
And by puruse, I mean terrorize.
She’ll beeline it to the nearest bookshelf,
(we only have, like, six or seven)
And start yanking the books off.
She is becoming more selective, though.
The other day she picked up a Wayne Gretzky biography
And then quickly dropped it in favour of a Pynchon.
Pretentious.
Now she chooses hardcovers with dust covers exclusively.
All the more parts to mangle.
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“Hey, check it out!”
We’ve just had dinner at a restaurant
And Colum is sticking his index finger into a bowl of jello.
“When you put things into blue jello,
They turn blue, too!”
I love the way he is able to arrive at a universal rule
From a particular instance.
(Even if that is not technically sound logic.)
He didn’t say that his finger was blue,
He said that things will turn blue.
And then,
He pulled his finger toward himself
And sent the jello flying onto the floor.