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A big shout out to Sears Canada for sponsoring another #SearsMom post.

We found ourselves at the mall a little over a week ago and Santa was there with a big, old easy chair, some dude in an elf get up and a camera crew. I saw my kids’ eyes light up, so I went over to the woman selling photo packages and asked if we needed to buy pics in order to visit with Santa. She said we didn’t so we lined our three, ketchup-streaked kids with messed up hair and rumpled school uniforms up behind two girls in formal holiday dresses. There was one kid on Santa’s lap and another kid screaming out of sheer and unmistakable terror while his parents kept laughing nervously and trying to coax him over toward Santa. They did this for a solid five minutes which feels like a long time when you’re standing around with three kids trying to keep the magic alive. I guess they were really invested in that holiday shot. I dunno.

Anyway, we finally got our kids up to the big man with the beard. They kind of gathered around his chair and Santa asked what they want for Christmas. Mary was quite sure she wanted a present, Irene came up with some line about a doll you design yourself and Colum could not for the life of him come up with anything to ask for. You know, I try to manage material expectations around here, so it looks like I’m doing an all right job. It’s not that they don’t want anything so much as that they don’t sit around dreaming about stuff. They took their candy canes and we shuffled off quickly so some paying customers could get a turn.

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Gifts. Of. Hope. Holiday shopping done. You’re welcome.

This post is part of the YummyMummyClub.ca and Plan Canada’s Gifts of Hope #YMCGiftsofHope sponsored program. I received compensation as a thank you for my participation. This post reflects my personal opinion about the information provided by the sponsors.

At this time last year, my niece Eloise was just home from the hospital, still underweight and still struggling to cement her breastfeeding relationship with her mother. I remember her little high-pitched cry, her eyes shut tight and mouth open wide, how small and fragile she felt in my arms and how she settled down instantly in her own mother’s embrace.

Eloise was born in a hurry when midwives discovered her amniotic fluid was dangerously low and her mother’s uterus was closing in on her, restricting her movement. Both her blood sugar and blood oxygen levels were low and she was whisked off to the neonatal intensive care unit where she remained for a week.

Plan Canada's Gifts of Hope: Newborn exam
This is a happy story. Eloise and her mother had unrestricted access to top quality pre- and post-natal care through our public health system here in Canada. Eloise is now a flourishing one-year-old who eats fistfuls of any food she can get her hands on and cruises her way around the living room furniture.

Without the care Eloise and her mother received, however, she might not be here today.

Not every baby is so lucky. Many newborns in developing countries are born without adequate medical attention. It’s so easy to forget how fortunate we are to have the most basic, life-saving services freely available to us at all times.

We are especially fortunate to have a large, loving and supportive family. Moms-to-be are showered with gifts before the baby is born and the little outfits and booties keep arriving for weeks after. My niece has just celebrated her first birthday and with grandparents and aunts and uncles galore, I know she will not be wanting on Christmas.

So I’m super excited about my gift. I’m giving Eloise the Plan Canada Gift of Hope of a newborn check up for a mom and baby in a developing country. Eloise is with us today because of the medical attention she received when she was born and I know her parents will be very touched that her gift helps another newborn in need.

Newborn exam Gift of Hope

The gift of a newborn checkup only costs me $30, but it will be matched by another government or organization for a value of $120. Many more of the Plan Canada Gifts of Hope offer matching contributions so you can find the most impactful gift for somebody in your life. School essentials for one child are only $17 and offer a value of $119, for example. Help for orphaned children affected by HIV gives a $1200 value for only $75 and the gift of literacy training for two women will turn your $120 into $600. There are many, many more to choose from.

The Plan Canada Gifts of Hope are perfect for the person who has everything. How many hours do we spend browsing websites, flipping through magazines and wandering around the mall searching for something to give people who really don’t need anything? Really. We spend money just for the sake of having something to wrap, knowing the gift is destined to land at the back of a closet. With the Plan Canada Gifts of Hope, the same amount of money we spend on holiday trinkets can be used to make a real contribution to projects in communities around the world. Every contribution includes a greeting card that will be sent out to the recipient and if you really need something to wrap, you can even add merchandise to your gift as a reminder of the donation made in their honour.

Imagine giving a gift to a family member that will also bring hope and change to a family in need and knowing your money has truly been well-spent.

This year, try an alternative to traditional gift-giving for the person who has everything or to teach your children about giving back.  Through Gifts of Hope, Plan Canada supports sustainable programs dedicated to education, health, livestock, water, girls’ rights, and livelihood in the developing world. Shop now at plancanada.ca/giftsofhope.

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Christmas magic

Excited to kick off my role as a Sears Mom Ambassador just in time for the holidays!

We must have been up past two in the morning that Christmas.

We came home from celebrating with my in-laws late on Christmas Eve and put the kids straight to bed. I ran around picking up the stray toys and wrappers and assorted clutter. I brought out the secret stash of Santa gifts and sorted out what was for who. I set out some milk and cookies and took a bite of one. Okay, maybe I had more than that.

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Our favourite things

This post is part of the YummyMummyClub.ca and Fisher-Price® sponsored program. I received compensation as a thank you for my participation. This post reflects my personal opinion about the information provided by the sponsors.

There they were, two mops of golden ringlets bobbing up and down on the living room carpet. Sisters. My heart was awash in maternal pride to see them playing together. I was also thrilled they were so into the Fisher-Price Little People Fun Sounds Farm that had just been delivered. Hey, this Fisher-Price Favourite farm rocks out sing-along songs and animal sounds. Of course they loved it. This sponsored post was going to be a breeze to write.

I tiptoed closer, camera phone in hand.

“No, Mary. I was playing with that. Give it to me!”

“WHAAA!”

“I had the cow first. Here. You play with this hay.”

“Stop dat, Weenie! Stop DAT!”

There was snatching and grabbing. Pushing and shoving. Somebody kicked the farm right over.

“Give your sister back that cow right now,” I said. “You will sit up and play nicely while I take some pictures or I cancel your birthday party. Don’t think I won’t do it.”

So I think it’s fair to say that they really like the Little People Fun Sounds Farm. My kids can’t get enough imaginative play and they loved exploring the farm with the farmer and his animals. The doors open and close to music and animal songs and sending hay up with the tip-up baler and then dropping it into the silo was lots of fun. Mary loved assembling and reassembling the fenced in area too. The cow, in particular, is a big hit.

But, really, when I think back on my childhood memories, all my favourite games and toys are tied up in a mess of emotions that involve fighting, sharing and otherwise negotiating with brothers and sisters, cousins and friends. I remember sitting in the basement with my Raffi album playing on the Fisher-Price record player, lyrics in hand, when my kid brother raced in and tried to change the record, scratching “The Corner Grocery Store” irreparably. I remember running around and around in circles, trailing my Little People School Bus behind me until an older cousin staked his claim to it. I remember sitting in my grandparents’ living room, quietly waiting for my turn to play with the Fisher-Price house. It was the one with the bell that rang if you hit the red button hard enough.

It was the one that my grandmother still has and that my children still play with, elbowing each other out of the way until they examine every last moving part and move on.

Our favourite toys are the ones we play with most, sure. But they’re also the ones we lose our cool over. We jockey for position and stand our ground, and sometimes finally even learn to share.

Ahem. And by “we,” I clearly mean the children. They’ll be fighting over that Fisher-Price Little People Fun Sounds Farm for years to come. (Because in all honesty it’s an awesome toy for toddlers and, apparently, their five-year-old sisters.) It’s probably for the best.

Read more product reviews on Fisher-Price® Favourites and new Fisher-Price®  toys for every stage of development.

 

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Done like dinner

A super-big thank you to Just-Eat.ca for sponsoring this post!

You know that feeling of satisfaction you get from coming home after a long week and scraping together a barely passable meal out of the dregs of your refrigerator to feed your family? Or how about the sense of achievement you earn spending an hour catching up on dishes and scouring pots and pans? No? Me neither.

Takeout is never a hard sell around here. As much as I truly and honestly do value home-cooked, nutritious food, I’ve also learned that I can’t always do it all. As a work-from-home mom who has a habit of biting off more work than I maybe should, my workday sometimes spills into the after-school hours and I find myself working on the computer when I should be spending time with the kids. It doesn’t feel fair for me to then continue to ignore them for another 45 minutes on those days while I try to get a meal on the table. So we order takeout and I get to help with homework, read stories and admire craft projects brought home from school. It’s not much, but it’s important.

But, man, do I get sick of the same-old pizza and burgers. Wouldn’t it be nice to be able to order something different? Maybe something even a little bit healthy?

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Making hockey fit

This post is part of YummyMummyClub.ca and Dodge Grand Caravan’s ”Tales from the Minivan” program. I received compensation as a thank you for my participation. This post reflects my personal opinion about the information provided by the sponsors.

There was freshly fallen snow that I didn’t take into account when I decided to walk the girls to Colum’s hockey game.

“You guys go ahead,” I croaked, standing over the coffee maker in my pajamas. “We’ll walk over in a little bit to catch the end of the game and then maybe we can go out for brunch.”

It must have been an 8:30am game time because I don’t even bother with the 7am games at all. Sorry kids. My love knows no limits but my tolerance for frigid hockey arenas on cold winter mornings is about as high as my expectation of ever seeing the Leaf’s win the Stanley Cup in my lifetime. That is to say, low.

So I let the guys go ahead and took my time getting the rest of us dressed and getting myself sufficiently caffeinated. All bundled up, I strapped the girls into the sit and stand-style double stroller and pushed it right into a snow drift in the back lane.

?#@*&%!

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Summertime unplugged

Big thanks to Foresters for sponsoring this post and inspiring this summer.

What would you do if you had to give up tech for a summer?

Don’t panic! Let’s make this easier.

What would you do if your whole family pledged to give up all tech for an hour a day all summer? I was, let’s say, cautiously optimistic when we took the Tech Timeout Challenge by life insurance provider Foresters back in June. My kids were downright panic stricken, to be completely honest. They think an hour is half an eternity. Oh to be young again. I was a little worried, however, about how we’d cope without using the TV or our phones, tablets or laptops even momentarily on a daily basis. We’d never really tried to be that unplugged before.

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Here’s To Summer Reading

This post is part of YummyMummyClub.ca‘s support of the TD Summer Reading Club program and other TD Children’s Literacy initiatives.

 

I’m looking out over a quiet lake as I write this post, the sound of water lapping against the dock and laughter carrying across the water from a far-off boat. There are tall trees and blue sky as far as I can see and the children run free.

This is not my cottage. Tomorrow we pack up and head back into the city where we’ll stay for most of the rest of the summer. My kids aren’t in any sort of camp or daycare either. Instead, they will be lazing about the house in desperate need of physical and intellectual stimulation while my own work commitments and deadlines hold strong.

How on earth am I going to manage? Well, I have a plan. Sort of.

The crux of my plan is to maintain a loose routine that will take care of the children’s basic needs while I work late into the night and during kiddie downtime, and call upon occasional babysitters when that’s still not enough. Basically, we will have lots of free play at home with daily outings to the park, the pool, t-ball practices and t-ball games.

Oh, and we will read.

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Movie Night! Featuring A Turtle’s Tale 2

Big thanks to Mom Central Canada and A Turtle’s Tale 2 for inspiring this great evening.

We invited some neighbours over for a screening of A Turtle’s Tale 2: Sammy’s Escape From Paradise and decided to make a party of it.

Ready.

Set.

Action!

It was raining so I had to prop up our welcome sign on the porch instead of on the walkway much to a certain boy’s dismay.

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A Grown-Up Cereal. Kids Optional.

My rambling thoughts about cereal are brought to you by General Mills

Somebody sent me a box of cereal to try. Somebody sent me a box of cereal to try out for myself. It wasn’t for the kids. It was for me.

I have been in the trenches trying to feed and nourish three young children for so long, you guys, that I didn’t even know what I was looking for in a cereal. I mean, what I usually look for could be charted somewhere toward the top of a parabola where the likelihood of my kids’ eating is compared with the nutritional value of the cereal. But me? Well, I usually just drink a pot of coffee before lunch. Is that … bad?