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The Politics of Parenting

“On no!” He was down on his knees on the sidewalk, holding his head in despair.

“What? What is it, Colum?”

“Not Peggy Nash! It’s another Peggy Nash sign.”

I quickly look around to make sure nobody is hearing this. “What do you mean, Colum? What’s wrong with Peggy Nash?”

“But Mom, you told me we were rooting for the Liberals.”

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It must have been the very first day of the federal election campaign, just as signs were starting to appear, when Colum asked me who I was voting for. I think I mumbled something like, “Oh probably the Liberals, sweetie, but we’ll see.” And that was that.

But as the Toronto Maple Leafs hockey season drew to a close, clearly the boy needed something to root for with all the die-hard loyalty of a sports fan. This has taken the rather embarrassing form of loudly cheering for the Parkdale/High Park Liberal candidate and booing the riding’s NDP candidate. (Sorry, Ms. Nash.) (Never mind that we technically live across the border in another riding — those are the signs he sees.) I’ve tried to explain that I actually think that both are good candidates (which I do) and that he shouldn’t get too carried away in the sign race.

The truth is that I’m not  politically partisan and it pained me to see my son so eager to don the colours of one party or another. (Not that it’s easy for a 5-year-old to participate in any other way.) My political views have probably mellowed out as I’ve gotten older and no longer carry the Communist Manifesto with me everywhere. (Kidding. That was just for the one class.) They’ve also become more pragmatic. A party or candidate’s ideological position on the political spectrum doesn’t necessarily carry more weight than their views on child care and maternity benefits, education or funding for extracurricular programs.

But I also care about issues that are less obviously linked to my role as a parent. Federal funding for public transportation and the arts, and policies about health care and immigration affect our lives as a whole. My views on these also reflect the kind of options I want my children to have in the city where I live. I fully expect my kids to be use public transportation to go downtown to soak up some culture in a multicultural city. The good I want for them isn’t really any different from the good I want for the nation as a whole.

My politics, therefore, are going to be a lot different from those of many other parents. Of course they are. There are families who live in the country or the suburbs and for whom public transportation is a non-issue. There are people who believe the arts are a frill and that immigrants will be competing with their children for jobs. There are as many different political views among parents as there are among anyone. This is all just to say that there’s not going to be a magical “mommy platform” that’s going to win a party the support of a whole demographic. That’s just not the way it works.

But as much as I decide how best to direct my family’s spending at the grocery store, I also shape the way my kids see the world. Is socialism a good or bad word? Is politics? The best way to raise engaged citizens is to act like ones ourselves.

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Public Fun Funds Fiasco

I’ve expressed my dismay over the costs of recreating at Toronto’s community centres before. I was especially irked, then, when a little bird (thanks Ange) tipped me off about Parks and Rec’s proposed fees increase. Link here for the details, but the gist is that the cost of all Parks and Rec programs will increase by 20% over the next year, and 66% after seven years. It has been dubbed the “Everyone gets to play” policy because part of those fee increases will be used to provide free programming for those who can demonstrate a financial need. Still, I don’t like it.

People like me, for one, will neither qualify for the free programs, nor be able to easily afford the increased fees. I worry, too, that many people who would make use of universally free programs will not bother applying for a free spot. And even the people who are readily able to afford the extra expense will have to wonder whether their money might be better spent at a private gym or on classes held elsewhere.

There’s a bigger point here, too. As my husband writes on behalf of the Eye Weekly editorial board, the value of Community Centres and other Parks and Rec programs is that they are universal and publicly funded. As a society, we are demonstrating that athletics and recreation are important for people of all ages and all walks of life. Like public libraries, and public schools and public parks, community centre programs should be as close to free as possible. Public services that are run on user fees should be geared toward the sort of thing that we want to discourage, like excessive water use or non-recyclable trash. (This is not always the case, unfortunately.) Even when the public purse is near bankrupt, and even in the face of school closures, you will never hear talk of instituting a tuition for public school children. This is the principle our community centres should run on. Pare down programs, sacrifice operating hours, if you must, but do not under any circumstances keep raising fees. Do not price the public out of a publicly run service.

For more info, check out an interview with city councilor Joe Mihevc on the Spacing Wire.

There will be two public meetings where residents can raise questions and concerns:

Wednesday, January 16, 2008 from 7 to 9 p.m.
Elmbank Community Centre (10 Rampart Rd.)
Wellesley Community Centre (495 Sherbourne St.)

Thursday, January 17, 2008 from 7 to 9 p.m.
North York Civic Centre Council Chambers (5100 Yonge St.)
Scarborough Civic Centre Committee Rooms 1 and 2 (150 Borough Dr.)

(Image courtesy of turbosquid.com.)